Adams Family Values
This post was submitted by TNG Contributor Corey.
In case you haven't heard, Mayor Sam Adams of Portland, Oregon, is in a bit of a pickle. In his campaign for office in May 2008, the openly gay Adams lied about having an affair with a young legislative intern who was only 18 years old at the time. The news broke this week when it was revealed that Adams had gotten the young man to keep quiet so as not to lampoon his election chances.
As you may recall, I spent some time doing political work in Portland and Oregon more generally this summer. Earlier this week, one of my friends from the Beaver State posed the question - is Adams obligated to resign because he lied to voters and betrayed the public trust? Some say yes, for even if his private life should not be an item of public concern, he lied and that's that. Others say no, either because they simply don't think it was that big of a deal or - more interesting - because they think Adams did what was necessary to avoid a homophobic bias.
Personally, I don't believe it was okay for Adams to lie even if he was just trying to avoid facing a double-standard as a gay man. Portland is a very liberal place, and chances are if they were willing to elect an openly gay man, they may have been willing to elect a gay man who had legal-but-sketchy sex with an 18 year old.
It's true that adding the word "gay" before a sex scandal always seems to make it worse. Thus, gay former governor Jim McGreevey (D-N.J.) was forced to resign, and gay bathroom sex enthusiast and former senator Larry Craig (R-Id.) was pressured not to seek reelection, but hetero DC Madam patron Sen. David Vitter (R-La.) looks likely to keep his job. However, the way forward is to show voters that there is nothing wrong with our politicians being a part of the LGBT community, and that they can be trusted running our cities, states, and country.
Which leads to a final question: did Adams betray the gay community by feeding homophobic stereotypes and squandering a chance to do something good for the gay community? I tend to think not - being gay doesn't make him accountable to every other gay American out there. Furthermore, it's hard to argue that gay candidates are working for all their constituents and not just gay rights if we expect them to give special consideration to the gay community before making personal or political decisions. When I was in high school in Connecticut, a gay man ran for the state senate in my district; I heard people argue that his only interest in the state house was advancing gay rights, one of those infuriating moments in which agents of oppression try desperately to victimize themselves. He lost the election that year but won in the following cycle - after the legislature had already passed the first civil union bill in American history not mandated by a court.
However, while I won't go so far as to say that Adams betrayed the gay community, it would be nice if prominent gay persons could show the world that not every LGBT American wants to prey on their child (even if he or she is pretty hot). Just a thought.
A few months ago I wrote about when we might see the first (openly) gay president. You can probably count Sam Adams out as a contender. But another gay politician to watch is the current mayor of Providence, David Cicilline. Maybe I'm biased, as we are both openly gay, good Italian boys who were born in Rhode Island and went to Georgetown. In fact, yes, I'm very biased. But my favorite political reporter, Chris Cillizza, gives Cicilline a pretty good shot at the Rhode Island governorship in 2010 if he decides to jump in. Rhode Island might be a small state, but this would still be a pretty big deal.
Meanwhile, thanks for nothing, Sam Adams. I hope your barely legal sex was worth it.
7 comments:
At some point we need to stop condemning people for legal sex acts. If someone asked me about my sex life while I was running for office, I would tell them that I am a proud out gay man and anything else is none of their business.
Beau wasn't working for Sam. They didn't engage in sex prior to his 18th birthday. 18 is a purely arbitrary age to have on the books as the age of consent. In neighboring Washington State, 16 is the age of consent.
It was consensual and legal. I say that the press needs to get over it.
"The news broke this week when it was revealed that Adams had gotten the young man to keep quiet so as not to lampoon his election chances."
The mayor was afraid that the intern was going to parody or make fun of his election campaign?
Perhaps the author meant "harm?" "Scuttle," perhaps?
Or even "harpoon?"
The New Gay really needs a copy editor.
we have one, but no single mortal (or perhaps even all of them) can correct my many mistakes. we are always looking for new helpers @ info@thenewgay.net.
Sorry, Corey. Mea culpa.
"However, while I won't go so far as to say that Adams betrayed the gay community, it would be nice if prominent gay persons could show the world that not every LGBT American wants to prey on their child (even if he or she is pretty hot). Just a thought."
This reminds me of when people say, "I don't mean to be rude, but..." and then say something rude and hide behind the disclaimer. Corey's snide "thanks for nothing, Sam Adams. I hope your barely legal sex was worth it," comes across with the same tinge of gay-loathing that I'm used to from straight media, with negatively-charged words like "barely legal." (Guess what? Either he's legal or he isn't.)
I expect better from the New Gay than this kind of devisive writing.
This broke my heart when I found out about it (and on Inauguration of all days...couldn't he have waited a day or two to hold a press conference???). As a former Portland resident, and a member of the queer community, it's disappointing to find out that one of our leaders was dishonest (not to mention the fact that the age/power differential indicates his judgment is somewhat questionable).
That said, I don't think the media's bat-shit crazy response is warranted. Just Out - Portland's local queer publication - went so far as to demand his resignation, which I find absurd. We shouldn't hold him to a higher standard because he's gay. His sex life is a private matter (so long as it was consensual and legal) and his public humiliation is sanction enough. The best thing for the city is for everyone to get over it and move on.
seriously, what is so goddamned "sketchy" about having sex with an eighteen year old? nothing, that's what. it drives me nuts when people talk as though young people are just prey to be taken advantage of. as if everyone over 30 is totally immune to manipulation. 18 is actually too high an age of consent if you ask me.
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